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A lot of doubts and questions in the minds of young and older couples concerned about their own libidos and the libidos of their partners. Often people avoid asking for libido help as it is considered a taboo subject. However, knowing a few aspects will do more than just help one's libido. It will also improve levels of sexual satisfaction.

There are many things that help in improving the libido, ranging from food and drink to exercise and good health.

One needs to get back to a regular pattern of exercise. Regular exercise stimulates the production of endocrines in the human body. This contributes to a sense of well being and can have an amazing positive effect on the sex life of a person. Besides toning down the muscles, exercise also ends up making one feel better about oneself. The more confident a person is, the sexier one feels thus helping the libido as well.

Often it has been observed in women that exercise that strengthens and tones the muscles of the lower vaginal area helps improve their sex life and libido.

Apart from this one needs to remember to be experimental in bed. One can try out various different sex positions with mutual consent. One can also try out alternative sexual techniques like oral sex and masturbation. These topics are mostly avoided. However, getting down to experimenting with them may open up some unchartered territory in the sexual relationship. This can lead to a different kind of release of libido in both men and women.

A drop in libido could sometimes be related to decreases in naturally produced testosterone (in both men and women) or estrogen (in women.) These hormone deficiencies can be treated by hormone replacement therapy.

Another important thing to remember is that stress and anxiety are common libido killers. With willingness and desire to enjoy sex and its various facets, the libido of a person automatically undergoes a positive change and people end up enjoying sex much better than they would otherwise.